After her smile, I first noticed her tattoos- a tall ship, mermaids and an. Tom Gabel, lead singer of American punk band Against Me!, had an awkward run-in with his ex-fiancee Laura. If you aren't specific with them about what you want, they'll potentially ruin your life. I appreciate your kindness more than you'll ever know. His performance was so convincing that I've been scared of him ever since.